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What Nobody Wants to Admit About Moving Abroad
The real story begins when the life you deliberately chose becomes ordinary.
Sep 1
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Rocco Pendola
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August 2026
I Escaped The United States, But I Owe One American City Everything
It taught me how to build a life I eventually had to leave the country to continue.
Aug 27
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Rocco Pendola
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I Asked Valencia to Fix a Bench. Then It Did.
One small lesson in what it means to stop living somewhere like a visitor.
Aug 22
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Rocco Pendola
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Cities Don’t Just Manage Overtourism. They Help Create It.
From a €6.6 million airline tender in A Coruña to new fines in Valencia, governments promote demand before policing its consequences.
Aug 17
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Rocco Pendola
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Spanish Was Easier When I Couldn’t Hear What I Was Missing
The better my Spanish gets, the more clearly I understand how far I still have to go.
Aug 11
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Rocco Pendola
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I Want to Go Places and Ask Better Questions
My plan to independently report the stories cities reveal about how societies work—from Valencia and beyond.
Aug 8
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Rocco Pendola
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I Stopped Judging My New Life Against The One I Left Behind
When Spain became the baseline
Aug 4
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Rocco Pendola
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You Helped Build This. Here’s How You Can Help Expand It.
Your lifetime membership will always be yours. This is an entirely optional invitation to support what comes next.
Aug 2
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Rocco Pendola
I'd Rather Complain About Scooters Than Parking
Why lively cities have better problems than "comfortable" suburbs.
Aug 1
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Rocco Pendola
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July 2026
Valencia's Bike Lane Problem Is a Good One to Have
What happens when the debate shifts from whether to build infrastructure to how to manage it.
Jul 29
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Rocco Pendola
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Bike Lanes Were Never The Answer
What a fight over bike lanes reveals about what the United States has become
Jul 28
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Rocco Pendola
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Why I Didn't Join an Expat Group
Why trying to force belonging can distract you from actually settling into a place.
Jul 26
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Rocco Pendola
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