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Vicki Upton's avatar

Great article, Rocco. As I have said many, many times, “No matter where you go, there YOU are.”

Rocco Pendola's avatar

And you're right every single time! I appreciate it.

Shawn Forno's avatar

Ironically, you're going to be on YouTube today @ 6pm! Woo!

Rocco Pendola's avatar

Appointment viewing!! Thanks for having me. I had fun.

Patti Petersen's avatar

I wanted to move to another country starting back in 2017. I got into crypto instead. I didn't concretely know what I wanted to do with my life nearing 60. But I knew back then that I wanted to immerse and learn a foreign language. I wanted to learn and embrace another culture. And I wanted to come from a place of service, not IG moments or the allure of being a American and demanding special treatment, and throwing money around, acting entitled.

Then I met and married my husband who had no desire to be anywhere but the USA, other than to vacation once every couple of years.

But he agreed to try it as he got closer to retirement. But he saw relocating to a foreign country almost as you described. I pulled back on encouraging this in the last year for us, but in the back of my mind I plotted to go and immerse in a Spanish speaking country at least long enough to get a solid base in the language.

And then he died.

Today I have no idea what I want. That is going to take time. I do plan on moving to another area in the US where speaking Spanish is embraced and the culture leans Hispanic. I've done it twice in the past and loved the experiences.

Now I'm also older. Everybody ages differently. Some are running marathons at 70. Others are sitting in front of the TV or scrolling FB, comfortable in their daily lives.

I don't fit in either category. So for now, small steps finding my place in the sun... and hoping to make my long ago dream come true... if it passes scrutiny when I'm ready to venture forth I'll move forward with caution and examine my motives even further. Great article.

Rocco Pendola's avatar

I think this is a good attitude. Actually I know it is. I hope you're doing okay.

It's sad to see what's happening on immigration. I really don't think a majority of the country - not even close - agrees with it in the slightest. Without Latinos, American — or U.S. — culture would be much less interesting. Let us know where you land. There's likely a reader or two with some insight.

Patti Petersen's avatar

I'll let you know. I like that you agree with my attitude. Flying solo oftentimes means second guessing myself. Nice to have someone see as I do. I've got many in my spere who do not. But before Carl i marched to the tune of my own drum... just have to get back in step.

Olaf Ransome's avatar

"Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen"

Michael Jordan had to put in a lot of work to “make it happen”

Rocco Pendola's avatar

Air Jordan! You see a lot of people wearing the throwback shoes around here!